Do you know that feeling inside you, when you are thinking of someone you used to see every day, but then it just stopped? Not only you are not seeing them, but not talking neither? It feels like you have an unfinished business with them.
When at the end of a day, we say “goodbye” to our colleagues, we know it is just for a day, as we are going to see them tomorrow. When we say goodbye to our parents we know that soon we are gonna talk to them on the phone. When we say goodbye to our b/gfriend, we know that it should last for a few hours, as we are going to meet soon.
But some binds are just not that strong. I am sure we all had some people in our lives we said goodbye to, but at that time we did not know for how long should that goodbye hold. If we knew, probably we would have hugged them longer, would have not been in such a hurry, probably said something else too. With these people i believe we have unfinished business. We still want to meet them for that last goodbye, to be in peace with ourselves that we knew. That we knew when we parted and said goodbye, that it was for forever.
There are people to whom i said my last goodbye. People i spent a few days/months with, but when parted, i knew that they were part of my life only for a short time, having low possibilities to see them again. But the ones to whom i did not say goodbye, and still have acted like we did, are harder to handle.
